The feeling
of emptiness comes and goes. Don’t fight it, don’t analyse it, don’t act on it.
Just be still and sit with it. Hold it. Accept it and it will go away again after
a while. And then sometime later it will come back. The thing to do is, again,
sit with it, stand with it, lie with it, roll around with it and accept it. Allow
it to be there however long it needs to be there, until it goes away again. It’s
a cycle – don’t you see - that will go round and round. As long as you stay on
the ride you can carry on with your life – as husband, father, dentist, brother,
Jew, immigrant, non-immigrant, American, writer, fictional character and
whatever else you happen to be.
Some though
wont’ or can’t ignore the emptiness. And here’s what happens when you run into
the emptiness in search of something – you run up against Roth’s Counterlife.
For those of us who are self-destructive enough to have to explore what is
there just because it’s there, the reward you get is a tangled mess of identities
– what you are, what you’re trying to escape, your attempt at rewriting it or
being rewritten by someone else and the totally alien one you’re trying to leap
into – each one just as unsatisfying as the first, the one you would have had
had you just stayed on the ride.
Yet we –
the selfishly destructive curious ones – know there is something in the
emptiness and the dissatisfaction. It may even be the dissatisfaction itself. It’s
the universal constant. Anytime you try to define something by giving it an
identity trouble bulges at the seams – whether that’s nationality, ethnicity,
religion, or marital status. It is begging our pesky human need to rewrite
things – and that’s where Counterlife gets so interesting and so clever –
because all these bulging dissatisfactions are examined in parallel with the
writer’s neurotic need to write and rewrite the narrative. The author who is
trapped by his own fictions and the process of writing, the fictional characters
trying to escape the author, the real characters trying to avoid being fictionalized.
We are all of these things.
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